I love giving answers to this kind of questions 😁!
And my answer for this one, (right or wrong) sounds as follows.
When people feel insecure, they tend to be more selfish and judgemental. Is a lot easier than trying to figure out what they can actually do in order to improve their life.
Any effort in helping and understanding others require way to much self-control than most people have 😃.
Consider yourself lucky for being able to see what you are seeing and for having these questions. Last but not ultimately, keep seeking for those who think like you, and spread awareness around you.
Remember, a great amount of patience is required.
Also, disappointment comes as natural effect of to great expectations! 😉
@laurentiu.negrea , as much as you like answering, as much i like reading your answers:)! You are right and i should be thankful but it does make me feel most of the time an outsider and indeed requires patience because i might get annoyed and/or upset by others but then it passes because i understand that it's the way i am too sometimes..dragged too much into my own stuff but at least i let everybody know like telling them before than i have my mind unfocused and i appologize for what i might say or do by mistake (for ex close the door in front of somebody with no intention)..regarding seeking for those who are like me, at this point i am and you know i am as we are working together for our Academy School, connected to people who think alike..i wish it would be in real life too..i wish i could find a better way to create a bound with the ones i love the most so everything would be harmonious..not a continuous exchange of judgements and critics and so on..but..life is as it it and there's always a bigger Puzzle we don't know about:). And i think that disapointments...as i always tried to tell my husband..me for ex i.m way passed over them..those come from within your mind..and if you don.t allow them to exist, the excitement and surprise grows even bigger:)..if it happends to turn out bad..is just a situation you need to learn from and conquer...if it.s good...oh well..it brings Joy:). So what.s the point of expectations knowing this:)? I wish you the best sunny day possible!