the 'instigator' (good word) energy ultimately determines the outcome a lot of the time and since it began unconscious and thus also unloving, it has been responsible for all evil. the feminine has had to carry the results. that said, neither is really more powerful - it's just 'first mover advantage' in a sense.
too much order leads to stagnation and death. too much chaos at least has the potential to recover into balance.
balance is best :)