Mandatory Love to Children

The childs is a small human being. Depending on the use it can mean an immature person, or someone who has not reached puberty or teen age. To specialize the meaning of a small child, he is called a child (the period of development of preschool children between the ages of 2 and 6 years).

This afternoon, I reflected, so many children around us who behave, blessed and think like adults, exceeds capacity of they age. If only the behaviors and ways of thinking that they do are positive, of course, not a problem. However, it seems that now many children who behave and think with patterns that are contrary to the rules and manners. This is the problem. Of course we must think this is not just their fault. Because they are underage.

Children are God's most beloved creatures. He was born innocent and misguided and he can not choose which one is the right person to be a parent. But so many parents are always demanding and want everything that is in his son must always be in accordance with his wishes.

Is it fair if only the child who is always asked for introspection will be shortcomings? Though parents are also human who did not escape from mistakes. Parents who always look on the side of the "always wrong child" is one form of "virtual crime" that does not mean it is a genuine crime or a violation of the law, but the things that actually do cause hurt against the child.

In this case do not look at the age of the child. Both small children / toddlers, adolescents and adults are included. An adult child also remains a child of his mother, so the treatment remains the same, he also does not want if he is always considered guilty. As the author of this article, I am also a child of my mother.

If there is a problem, parents often make a statement if the child is guilty, and most parents even 'blindfold' them by ignoring the positive side of the child, just because the child is considered wrong at that moment.

So, at the time of the occurrence of a case, parents only see negative things in the child, bringing up his mistakes, but in addition the child actually has the side of the heart and good thinking, even it is not impossible parents who are too easily irritable so always negative thinking to the child, but not the intention of the child's heart to deliberately cause a problem.

At the extreme, there are some parents (including my parents, mothers) who, if there is a problem with the child, they make a 'shield' by conditioning as if the child does something that causes the parents' heart to be hurt, / advice parents, considered to argue, and others. In fact, the fact is not necessarily the child intends to do that (from the bottom of his heart). Parents often dark eyes easily angry and easily worse to the child if the situation becomes bad.

What a shame, behind the laughter of them, terimpanketet that will imprint all the time. The lives of most of our children are not as beautiful and as laughable as laughter. There is a sob in their unexplained chests because they are confused to talk to whom, they have not been good at expressing their feelings and thoughts, they are not yet able to express themselves.

So they vent their thoughts and emotions in the form of a fussy, crying or sudden attitude of being very spoiled or rude and disrespectful. Surely this makes a lot of parents who do not like, some even to hate their own children! is this normal?

I hope this will be a writing that inspires parents to love their children more by addressing their children well when they make mistakes.