so stop counting your quality of life with anyone.

Nothing is wrong even if we are pursuing matter or wanting to live better than others, what's wrong is that we think that's the only way to live this life, the concept that we should be more successful, richer, happier, and other meaningless comparisons will only make us feel more and more trouble, because "the real problem does not exist" can be a real problem if we think it exists and keep thinking about it, so stop counting your quality of life with anyone.