But prayers and fasting will never take the place of Taking Actions.
For you to marry, you must first approach the person you want to marry.
But if you're not approaching the person you're seeing...how can you marry?
But, for you to also approach someone, you must first see the person.
You cannot approach someone you have not seen.
But, how do you know you have seen the right person when you see that person...?
That is where many people are missing it.
It is not that they don't see the right person daily...
But because they don't even know the right person in the first place.
So, they see what they need or whom they're looking for...without even recognizing them...
The reason is very simple:
Because THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR!
Why don't they know what they are looking for?
Because THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
If you don't know what you want...you'll keep seeing it everywhere without taking it.
If you don't know what you're looking for...you'll keep SEARCHING FOR IT EVERYWHERE...without finding it.
Hope you're following?
Like I said, you will know a spoon that you need to use to eat your plate of rice once you see it.
But how do you identify it or how do you differentiate it from the knife and fork?
Because of its shape...
Why do you think Adam chose Eve when he saw her?
THE PHYSICAL ASPECT.
WHAT KIND OF PERSON DO YOU WANT AS A HUSBAND OR WIFE BASED ON PHYSICAL APPEARANCE?
Adam Knew What He Wanted...He Knew What He Was Looking for.
So when he saw it...HE RECOGNISED IT...
HE KNEW THAT THIS IS IT!
SO, WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Therefore, the first thing to do and the first step to take in "FINDING the Right PERSON" is KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT for Wife or Husband.
Even the Bible says "Ask and it shall be given..." (Matthew 7:7).
And "All things whatsoever you desire when you pray...shall be granted..."
So, how do you ask for something you don't know...
To ask for water...you must know you are thirsty and that what you need is water.
You must have a DESIRE before you can ACQUIRE.
Therefore, ONE OF THE BASIC REASONS WHY SO MANY PEOPLE ARE WAITING WITHOUT GETTING IS BECAUSE...
THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT....
THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY DESIRE.
You can't just say "I want a wife" or "I want a husband."
There are potential wives and husbands everywhere...
Including the mad men and women on the streets.
But, are you looking for a man guy or girl to marry?
So, most people only know what they don't want...THEY DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
But the Key to getting is KNOWING.
If a plate of food is presented to you...or placed before you.
You know you either need a fork, a spoon or a knife to eat it.
So, you go to the kitchen to pick it.
When you get to the kitchen...you wouldn't pick a knife to use for eating a plate of rice.
What do you pick to eat a plate of Rice?
Or Fork if you like.
So, before going to the Kitchen to pick...you already knew what you wanted...what you wanted to go and pick...a Spoon.
So, once you get to the kitchen...you would see forks, knives and spoons...you would simply ignore all the forks and knives you see and pick the spoon you want.
Because you already knew what you wanted.
That's the same thing you need to FIRST DO in picking the Right Husband or Wife.
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.
KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.
KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SEARCHING FOR.