How to Make Women Feel Comfortable Close and Chat With You isigood

Making the other person feel comfortable is part of the art of communicating, and at the same time a challenge for most people especially who have felt the failure to build communication with others. Some people are endowed with natural traits, which make other people happy to be close together and comfortable chatting with them ... Regardless of what is being talked about, regardless of the motivation and reason of the people who want to be close to it.

Higher level, if you are a man able to make every woman comfortable feel comfortable with you, and linger close together and comfortable talking with you. The woman in question here is not your sister, or a close friend, or even a girlfriend. What is meant here is every woman you do not know very well, or a woman you just met.

Talking to fellow men, sometimes much easier because it is not too haunted by psychological barriers and worries about 'self-esteem'. Bringing in a newly known woman is not an easy matter, because the psychological barriers sometimes make you too cautious, until what comes to the surface is not your original.

If you get stuck in this 'fake', then you will be more difficult in developing communication materials. For example, once we try to figure out something, then for the next you have to continue engineering the story, and this becomes a psychological burden that eventually leads to discomfort. Especially if your confidence wobbles and comes negative thoughts that the woman has begun to feel suspicious, or feel not interested in the results of engineering about you.

The key, everything starts from a good start when you meet him.

Start with yourself!

Start from yourself, and get rid of the awkward feeling. Many people think, that the look of a calm face, as well as a quiet body gesture is the easiest feature to be a measure of how comfortable you are when starting a conversation with him. However, facial expression and gesture of the body is not the core of this, because both of them are effects. A much more powerful factor is, it all starts with your mind and heart.

Peace of mind and heart will keep you from unnecessary movements, such as moving the fingers unconsciously. Better yet, peace of mind will keep you from mispelling or choosing words in your conversation. In the end, facial expression and body gesture will follow by itself.

Then, how to get peace of mind and heart? The simplest way, is to eliminate all negative thoughts. This is the definition most easily understood in a very short time when you suddenly have to start a conversation with him.

What is a negative thought? For example, you have been worried if he does not like your whereabouts, or in your way, or with the content of your conversation. Another example, (even) you are worried about your unattractive appearance, or not in top form state. Then you will lose about 60% of your focus just to calm down because of not confident with your appearance.

Worse yet if you think, "Ah, lest your hidden intentions be discovered by him!"

Okay, let's say you meant to get along with him, as long as you mean good and sincere intentions, 'so what' if it has been smelled by him since the early rounds of the meeting. Who knows, you're a good man who will make his life more positive. Whether as a friend, co-worker, friend, or even closed the possibility of becoming a life partner. But, please, do not think too far first yah ... because the thought that already digress too far will also result in failure to open j