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Ever wonder why the individuals are given more emphasis, than the relationships in many situations.

Going back to the beginning, the first thing that was created was the individual and not marriage. Most people's goal is ''marriage in relationship'', that is the ultimate in their relationships.

We often say and hear stuffs that really makes people think that they somehow many not be enough in their single state, that is, *if I am not married, I may not be enough *.
It's not like you are being deprived of Marriage but we should understand that singleness is the most important time of our lives.

Singleness is a stage when you are not responsible for anyone else but just yourself.

So many people rush into stuffs like relationships and marriages haphazardly. There's this thing about getting into commitments that we shouldn't get into unless we know, thats really what we want to do.
Most people tend to be so sick of singleness that they consider marriage as the only option to solve the loneliness.They are sick of their self and think "if they were some other person", it would make it better and if it's the same issue with the other person, then they both become sick.
Most people only get into commitments and then get to discover their singleness just because they never took the time to be single, they try to figure out how to be committed and be single at the same time, and it will hardly work.

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One should take time to discover oneself as Single.
When you don't know yourself, you won't know what's really right because you'll always go for what you think you want and you'll have no basis on it because you've not had the time to figure yourself out.

Loving yourself
You can't figure how to love another person else when you have not figured out how to love yourself in singleness and many have skipped that process and just jump to love somebody else...

Love God | Love Yourself | Love Others...
You can't give compliments to another person when you have a low self esteem about yourself...
You have never been alone, long enough to love yourself, you've never being isolated enough to get to accept who God really created you to be and this makes you settle for a choice of relationship to be a compliment of what's deficient in you.

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Your state of singleness and loneliness is very important to you and God because it gives you vision and focus and purpose at that point making you to realise who you are without a person, because if you don't know that, you will have the mindset of always needing someone else to validate who you ought to be.

You can actually reach purpose without being committed to a person.

There's nothing wrong in being single at a stage, age shouldn't be an issue to you.
In Singleness, you discover your true self and potentials. You discover your strength and weaknesses and you work on them, this then gives you a better part of yourself...
Once your able to love and work on yourself, it becomes easier to love another and then get loved in return, this time even better.

Know yourself, Build yourself, Love yourself...
Stay true to love...

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