I know no one wants to be seen as the bad person. NO isn't always a bad word. It's very good to be nice and to be willing to help others out but it's also likewise important that we learn to say no when necessary. Walk away from toxic relationships, turn down offers that would do you more harm than good. Say no when people are trying to take undue advantage of you . Like the good book says "there is time for everything", time to say YES and time to say NO.