LOVE VIRTUAL
** Virtual love is an undiscovered disease, and therefore almost everyone who regularly communicates in the network has experienced this disease with varying degrees of severity. Initially, virtual novels seem easy and unnecessary. He looks like a funny game, a means of boredom, fun entertainment, after all. **
** At first, you can be critical about what's going on, and, as a rule, do not provide correspondence like any value. However, there is always a threat to play as well and see how serious a "big engagement" is, which is almost invisible to itself, you fall in love real and become addicted to this virtual relationship. Virtual correspondence replaces real life. **
** "I blinded it from what ..."The main danger, in our opinion, is that virtual love only exists in your mind. Because it's not even from the side of the screen, there may be people who pretend to be somebody else, but that you gradually (and sometimes right from the first words read) begin to idealize it, to discover and think of its image, refine it with every message written and read. Due to the fact that you are only dealing with letters, you have a great space for your imagination so you do not seem to give the invisible interlocutor so many advantages are impossible not to fall in love with him. **
** And it's all up to a real date (which, by the way, may never happen). You do not see or hear how in real life this person communicates with people and, therefore, you can not evaluate it and make a real representation of it. The desire to create an ideal relationship with an ideal partner is entirely fascinating and irresistible from the usual picture and does not include a simple analysis of the person "from the other side of the screen."In addition, you get a lot of praise! After all, to write "I have never met / met so beautiful / so beautiful as you" and then everything in the same spirit is much easier than say it in reality. **
** Virtual communication simplifies and speeds up relationships, plus we do not forget that couples have long been idealized and practically canonized. And if you have not met the object of worship before the canonization, you will be disappointed. Damn, but there you go. For real people not only do not fit, they do not even reach their ideal virtual character level for one hundredth of a part. **
Virtual relationships - real dependence
** Virtual correspondence - is a kind of trap: you become dependent on the contrived emotions that experience, read the written word, in fact, the perfect stranger. And as you read it in the right tone for you, accompany the fantasies of the perfect partner, then you will surely get the feeling that here is a real-hero or hero, and no one else can cause you to have your feelings and your way feel. **
** Therefore, there is a feeling not only real, they are under an hour much stronger than you have ever experienced in my life. Confidence in people you've never seen, so intoxicating that to leave is only possible, because you realize that you can not just experience like in real life. **
Who is "sticking"?
As a rule, the following categories of people are "inherent" in love on the Internet.
** Creative people, those in need of emotional "filling" and inspiration, who are looking for Muse. Writers, poets, musicians and artists, photographers and actors all need the love and sharpness of constant feelings to be created and created. **
** People work and practically "live" on the Internet. In ninety cases out of a hundred communications with clients on the Internet really work, but there are still 10 percent criminal cases when the employment relationship for some reason is transformed into a very personal personal relationship. **
What should I do?
** The answer is simple - to meet. If we talk about the occurrence of feelings, then it is just necessary to meet, and the sooner this real encounter occurs, the better. The earlier you meet your virtual love object, less deceiving hope and the ideal idea about each other you have. Only real communication will help understand what the fruits of your unbearable imagination are, and what that reality is. And ... with what the devil is not kidding, maybe your virtual love will be the most that both are the present. **