Do not envy others, only guard you own

There is such a fable: Pig said that if I live again, I want to be a cow, although tired of work, but the reputation is good, people love pity; cattle that if let me live again, I want to be a pig, eat Strike to sleep, sleep to eat, no effort, no sweating, live the game fairy;

Eagle said that if I live again, I want to be a chicken, thirsty water, hungry meters, living rooms, but also protected by humans; chicken that if I live again, I want to be an eagle, you can Soaring sky, wandering around the world, any catch rabbit kill chicken. This is a very interesting phenomenon, described the scenery elsewhere.

We are always involuntarily going to envy others what they have, envious of other people's work, envy friends to buy a new house, envy other people's car, and so on, but overlooked a little, we ourselves are also the object of others envy.

In fact, people are always envious of each other. Some people often imagine one day when they wake up, they will become certain people. Probably because we know the shortcomings of our own lives, we will compare them with the ones we consider to be more perfect and take the coordinates of our lives.

In fact, there is no perfect world in this world, those who we envy are also subjected to their disappointment. The so-called every family has the sad thoughts of the vanity of the nature of the original so that they show their own side of the scenery, and who can really see behind the scenery of others? Oftentimes, what I get is what I get, everything is two-sided like a coin, there are positives and negatives.

People, especially women, often prefer to compare themselves with others. The result is that "people are more dead than people." In fact, you may want to compare yourself with yourself to see if you are getting better and better and if you are getting closer and closer to your desired goals . From time to time to encourage yourself, you will do better. Maybe while you envy others, others are also envious of you.

Of course, some people really deserve our envy, not entirely because they get more, but because they are good at business.

Envy others because we look forward to perfection, expect to live better. However, we have neglected that everyone is in a different situation and others can never imitate it.

Do not envy others, only guard their own.

However, we can correct our shortcomings by observing the strengths of others. Rather than looking up the happiness of others, we should pay attention to the ways in which others operate happiness. Instead of envious of the good fortune of others, we should learn from others' efforts.

Do not go envious of how others, how good God counted for your grace, you will find that you have absolutely no more than no. The missing part, though not adorable, is also part of your life. To accept it and treat it well will make your life happy and open-minded.

So, really do not have to envy others. Hold what you own and want to know what you really want, and we'll be really happy!