Oh, yes, sir! I can relate to the victim game. The last year was a bomb of a year. Finally took some eye-opening, smacks in the back of the head, to get going again. Find that spending that time used for venting about what I can't change, and using that time to change things I can, have made a significant difference in my quality of life and career.

Reading, journaling, and walking are all on my self-improvement path.