All of us would like a magic wand to solve all the problems we have in our lives, but that is only a utopia

The real truth is that nothing in life is arranged with magic. We are born with virtues and gifts, beauty, intelligence, health, but life somehow manages to pose difficult and painful situations. In us, it is looking for the solution to those difficult situations and problems, but not only that but also to carry out that solution.

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You can read many books that propose the solution to each problem, seek advice from experienced people, or a specialist in the field, but if you do not act putting it into practice the solution will not come. There is no magic formula that solves problems. Confronting them from the perspective of "I" and not "TU" would be one of the most effective ways to solve them. When you place yourself from the perspective of the self you are assuming that the problem is in you and not in others, and you are the one who must find the solution.

If you put yourself in the perspective of the TU you are assuming that your problems originate in others and that they are the ones who must solve them. Become aware that it is your own life and not that of others, and it is up to you and only you to take responsibility for your own problems and face them to find the solution. It may be the case that the focus of your problems is on others, but finding the solution and carrying it out is only in you.

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Maybe the solution is to get away from that person who causes you the problem, break relationships with her, stop seeing her, but definitely, whatever it is, the solution is in you. Understand that your life is not fixed with magic, that only the right actions you take are those that ultimately bring the solution to your life. But all of them require that you act, that you get going, that you start at once to bring them to a successful conclusion.

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If you really want to change your life, it is not enough to read self-help books that guide you in the solution, that give you light and perhaps a thousand ways to find them, but if you do not put them into practice, they will serve you; there is no magic in reading them that changes your life. The magic is that you decide for yourself to apply the knowledge that they give you in your own life, in the daily life that you live every day. Only then will you have a solution to your problems.

Thank you for reading!