¿ How to be an ideal father ?

Today I post on some theories about parenting styles and how to be a better parent for both you and your child, if for both parties because both children and parents should enjoy a good upbringing.

When you have children for the first time especially when we are new parents we have many expectations on how to do things well, because "our biggest failure" can be to make mistakes and not to achieve a suitable training for our children.

So, today I share a little about theories and styles of parenting accompanied by some recommendations to achieve a "closer" to the "ideal formation of a home" I make this comment of "ideal" in quotation marks because each one from us it looks for the functionality of the hand of the comfort in our home arriving thus until our zone of comfort or to what I refer very subjectively as "ideal".

Permissive parenting style: the one that is employed by a parent who does not exercise any authority over his child, that is, the one who considers that his son is the one who must decide everything about himself.

Democratic parenting style: this is characterized by reaching what we know as "negotiation" between both parties, the father allows the child sometimes participate in some decision making, it is important to say that these decisions depend on the degree of importance and relevance that they have going hand in hand with the youth's age.

Authoritarian parenting style: on the contrary this style refers to the total nullity of the child's participation and their opinions will never be taken into account because it is Papa and Mama who are the only ones with the right to decide.

Now, the question is ... WHAT IS THE BEST STYLE ?, and the answer is EVERYONE. If all, then simply in spite of the fact that we seek a balance in our strategies, there are things that can never be negotiated with a child because he does not know about consequences, for this reason authoritarianism is necessary from time to time so that your child can see you as figure of respect and make it clear that you are his dad and you want the best for him always, although it sounds absurd we need to be permissive on very specific occasions of little relevance to us but of great importance to your children, make you feel that it is also a part important in the home is to promote security and safe attachments in the future, where we can interfere with the latest style that is the democratic that is no more than the fair opportunity to make decisions in situations of importance and negotiation of both parties.

I hope you have enjoyed my reflections and recommendations as a closing to the subject exposed, once again, thank you for reading and I hope this publication is very useful for the steemit community.