In the workplace, people who can withstand four kinds of grievances can become powerful!

in #emotional5 years ago

Some people say that the workplace is fair to everyone who works hard. However, in the real workplace, there is no absolute fairness, and regardless of the dumb loss on the little things, it is often the case that you are wronged in big things. However, it is in these setbacks that talents have entered and retreated.

If you can't stand the grievances, you will be eliminated early and you can bear the burden of humiliation. You can often go to the end and get better. Therefore, in the workplace, you can survive the following four kinds of aggrieved people, and you will be able to achieve a great cause in the future.

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Leaders allocate additional work

Many people in the workplace think that they can do less and do less work. I feel that no matter how much work is done, why are they tired and tired? Therefore, when leaders are assigned to work, everyone can avoid it and be afraid to do extra work. If it is "unfortunate" to do extra work, it is full of grievances!

But some people can withstand such grievances, because they know that since they have already done it, why bother with grievances, it is better to do things well with their heart, it is to exercise themselves. The leader will see that you can both suffer hardships and correct attitudes will naturally have a good impression on you.

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Pay can't get paid

I don't know if you have found out that people who are often poor are always those who want to get immediate rewards when they pay, while rich people know how to invest in long-term, and they are good at catching big fish. Most people are paid monthly, while the more powerful is the annual salary. The more powerful is to invest in a project, and the profit can only be seen in a few years.

So in the workplace, don't think about getting paid immediately if you pay, you have to be able to withstand temper. When you accumulate a certain amount, the energy will definitely erupt and go to success.

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Being betrayed with colleagues

Friendship in the workplace is true and false, seemingly solid, and may easily collapse when touched. Therefore, when you encounter a betrayal of a colleague in the workplace, even if you feel wronged, don't complain, and confide your anger with others.

You have to understand what kind of people are in this world. If you meet today, it is a hone to you. If you can afford it, your heart will become stronger. After all, if you want to do big things, you will only see more after the ugliness of human nature!

Always criticized by leaders

There are always people complaining in the workplace, leaders always aim at themselves, and many people can't stand this grievance and resign. However, sometimes it is necessary to understand the nature of leadership criticism. Some leaders do insults to suppress employees, but some leaders criticize employees and have high demands on employees.

Therefore, when encountering the latter's leadership, we must face up to the criticism of the leadership and use it as a pressure to adjust ourselves. Leaders will also look at your attitude. If you respond negatively, then the leader is too lazy to criticize you. After all, you don't have much to do with him.

There is a saying that "you can't destroy you, it will make you stronger." We are inevitably aggrieved in the workplace, but we hope that our grievances are not to eat dumb, but to forge our heart and make us more tough.

Finally, ask everyone, what kind of grievances have you experienced in the workplace?

Author: Yan Ju.
Pay attention to my words and walk into your heart.
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