How to upgrade your relationship when chatting with girls

Upgrading your relationship with a girl is like going up a flight of stairs, you must learn to walk on two legs.

There are two ways to upgrade a relationship:

One is ambiguous flirting in chat.

One is holding hands and hugging on a date.

Ambiguous flirting is equivalent to your left foot, holding hands and hugging is equivalent to your right foot. To upgrade the relationship, we must take the left foot first and lay the foundation for simple ambiguous flirting.

For example, if you tell a girl that she misses you after not seeing you for a few days, let's have dinner together on the weekend, and then you ask her out. When you hold her hand, she will be more receptive. Because you have laid the foundation, she is mentally prepared.

But if you talk to her, it's just plain water. You said that the weather is very good today, the sun is quite bright, but it may rain tomorrow. Then on a date, if you suddenly hold her hand, the girl will feel very abrupt because you didn't set the stage well.

If you successfully hold hands with a girl on this date, it means that you have taken a step forward with your right foot. Then it is time for you to take a step forward with your left foot. How?

That is, when you are chatting with a girl, the level of ambiguous flirting can be raised. That's also good preparation, it's time for you to take the right foot again. next date
You can hug him.

Just like this, left foot and right foot, left foot and right foot, and finally you are together.

There are two common mistakes:

The first one is to only have fun while chatting and not to escalate during the date. Some boys and girls have never met each other, nor have they held hands and hugged each other. But the scale of chatting is very large, which girls cannot accept.

The second one is not to set the stage in the chat, but to get started directly when meeting. Girls can't accept this either.

You must remember the principle of climbing stairs that I talked about today, left foot and right foot, left foot and right foot, step by step.