Times change / the respect for parents and children
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Yes, times are changing. I remember in my childhood, was impossible to respond poorly to parents, was very respectful to the elderly and are not chums them. Younger siblings respected elders, friends are appreciated and are respected, when two men were fighting gripping shock. We see children challenged parents or siblings, parents of households leaving and abandoning the children. Now when men or women fight seen taking aramas, hiring Hitmen, or looking for a way to take revenge for what happened
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God says and the Bible that in the end times everything changed because of wickedness and the love of many is me, and we can see it daily children who not only respond poorly to parents, if or which offend them and maltrata Actualmente many mothers touches les work and leave are all day home and not can well attend to their children, leaving that task to daycares, babysitters, grandparents or some known. Respect is the basis for a correct living and there is no doubt that it is in the family where their skills are built.
Some forms of as parents is missing the respect from their hijo:
•When you are untimely to carry it or search for your college or any actividad
•When ignore what the tells you and you just respond with a 'yes' or a 'NO'
•when parents are missing the respect between them and children s or witnesses, they suffer and as parents as hacen
•When only for your convenience and without explanation, breach the promises that we have them fact.
•Comparing your child with other people who are better than him in some aspecto
•When say you bad words or phrases derogatory
•we lacking respect when you ignore your opinion by being Pequenode this way you get, they also learn to disrespect you.
Some tips so that the children respect parents:
to train people with values start with give you the example of what we want to achieve.
• when children live in a quiet and friendly environment is more likely that they are also, on the other hand if sees violence generate aggression in the
•Escuchas their views and their problems dale importance as if they were yours, listen to them.
• do not lie you, you do not deceive him or him defraud creates frustration in friendly ellos
•Se with them, teaching them the value of words: for Please, thank you, sorry. Apologize if you mistake and thank you for your effort to help us.
•Hablarles without yelling, screaming don't you as authority or credibility or infuse respect. Screams and bad forms promote fear and alienate your children for you.
•avoid give you everything what you ask and when asking for it, even though everyone wants to see happy your children need to know say that not at some times if fear or fear of his reaction.
•corrigelo of positive way without reaching the golpes
•Establece rules and regulations must comply with in and outside the home, will grow with that habit that you teach him
Let's become great people for a better society.
Changes if nothing your or change!!!
I hope will be useful.