Special Child: You feel very lonely as a parent!

in #education7 years ago (edited)

A special child is your baby, because she is not as normal as other children. But is he unusual? Not at all! You or none of you take hold of the curators that made them unusual because they did not make them normal. Only the head should be kept on the head that the baby is a little special, its caretaking needs special. I'm talking about the difficult struggle you are going through to give this special care to her.

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Parents of a special child who spend their daily lives as a war. This is a war, so that no one else is a comrade except for a companion. In any case, the war becomes the mother's mother's face, especially in the context of this country, it is a very natural scene!

Someone's mind comes in the war and sometimes it seems to be stopped. All want to get away from the mind!

But is it so easy to deny your child?
Why would a child leave alone a child in such a misery?
What does the mind do to do this?

If you are a parent, you will feel very alone. You will need to be detained, when you are around and other children get the right to live well in society, and you are walking differently with your child, or are forced to walk.
Many times the family also turned away. The child is shouting day after day, making the house dirty, or stagnant at one place, lying down and sitting himself repeatedly, everyone can not take these things well.

So the child should be given exile?



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Never! Rather, he wants to take his own life as his parents, leaving him alone. How will this exile live? To avoid the disappointment of being alone, instead of patching the boundaries of your movements, one more time is arranged. You can have friends who have taken your child very easily. In your special life, those who have helped themselves, they are outsiders, but your loved ones. Increase the movement with them. That's good for you, and for your child, it's a lot.


You'll ever be afraid Thousands of fears of child life will not allow you to become normal. When you do not, what will be the child? Can he ever be able to run himself in society? Will the society accept him a little naturally? One such anxiety will take your sleep away. Contemplate the fear of the inner person, while dealing with nearby people. It does not always have its own hands. Then there are other people who need to reduce the concrete bitter feeling and calm down. Actually think about as much as possible. Do not forget that the fear is uncertain, how logical it is, absolutely not. One of your fears can be completely unfounded, at least check it out once.

You will be relieved to talk to the other child. It may be that you want to talk to him, but the obstacles are coming from the heart and you cannot say anything! Because the child is not completely healthy! Everyone talks about him well? How many battles will continue with your mind every time! Do not want to tell a child to everyone. Talk to those who love the kids. Those who really want to know about him. Have other children like your child, keep in touch with their parents. In this case, possible solutions to many problems can be easily found.

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You'll be very tired. Both mental and physical, in both cases Keeping an eye on all the needs of the child throughout the day is your job and worrying about it is your practice. There is no release! Sometimes there may be someone to help you, but not always. As I said before, you are the only soldier in the war, it will have to be on the ground floor. That's why take care of yourself, take care of body and mind. Your overall health needs much more for your child.

Although it sounds a bit absurd, it is true that sometimes you will feel jealous of the children of others! It's very normal, when you see a two-year-old child doing what you are not able to do for six years, you'll feel bad. This bad feeling will give birth to jealousy. You have to learn to handle this thing! Envy is in the scale, or does not increase, it is your job to tell yourself.

How many other problems that will be with you on the path of daily life, and for some, maybe it is difficult to think! Yet life will be like this. Looking at the child's face you will just be able to overcome all obstacles. You will be able to develop a living life for your child, and you want to keep this faith in a tireless way.

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