@tarazkp I believe a major part of calling something gay is insecurity. I have danced Salsa with men even though I'm heterosexual. I don't mind because if you feel secure about your body, you can focus more on what you actually want to do (living in such an open city as Cologne is a bonus; any other German city would not look very kindly on it; but again: I don't care)
I actually have the same goal as you: to get the people to dance (Salsa) and become more secure with their body. I have made a video where I dance with complete strangers who've never danced Salsa before, to show that anybody can do it. If you want to check it out, I've posted it here:
https://steemit.com/life/@germansalsero/i-bet-you-can-learn-how-to-dance-salsa-and-i-have-proof