American Parenting vs Chinese parenting, who is more slightly?

Children in the future to face a larger, more integrated world, master the differences between East and west, may provide us with new ideas, New Horizons.

1. About early education in America's non-front-line cities, children seldom teach early, and early-education classes are not seen there. So, is China's early education institutions in the money? Before we make a conclusion, let's take a look at the background of the uncommon early education institutions in the United States.
   First, the American mother's maternity leave is six weeks, yes, only 1.5 months. After the maternity leave, if the mother chooses to continue to work, she will send the child to day Care (Toban). In day care class, although the teacher will not teach systematic knowledge, but will be designed to sing, games and other links, the equivalent of China's early teaching classes!
   Second, the concept of "early education" has long been rooted in America (not limited to America), and Americans are very "playing". If the wall to see Instagram, you will find a lot of foreign parents with children play a very creative game.
   
   Although the domestic parents are also beginning to realize the importance of early education, but can play the way to the early teaching of the people still accounted for a minority, or is still in the primary learning stage. More is, want to carry on early teach, do not understand method, do not want to spend time or have no time to understand method of parents, so convenient early education institution naturally is a good choice.
   Third, Americans are very fastidious will "work" and "life" separate, the next class to go home, overtime that is to give money, this in the invisible between the protection of the "effective companion time" with the child.
   
   And in the country, and do not say one to work time to play chicken blood "leaders." In the North canton such a first-line city, the time cost is too high, even on time, many people also face the "morning out of the children have not wake up, the evening home children have been asleep" the status quo. How can you talk about "effective companionship" when you don't have time to see your child's eyes open? 2 about dad with doll will often see some video collection, is about foreign dad with baby, some are funny, some are cool. The comments under these videos are generally very neat, all Chinese mothers to the Chinese father's "anger its indisputable." So, the American father with baby?
   
   Although the number of samples is very small, can not represent all people, but the general situation is: really with baby! Many full-time mother's family, the husband will also take over after work, let mother rest.
   The reason: First, the Americans attach great importance to family life, this and the previous article on the separation of work and living quarters is the same. Not only attention, but also enjoy. Imagine, if take baby can cause inner happiness, that naturally will not resist.
   
   Second, Americans are very independent. The world should have only Chinese parents who are still concerned about their children's eating, drinking and sleeping after their children become adults. The result of this overly intimate parent-child relationship is that a lot of people don't live, and life here refers to "being able to take care of one's life and make fun out of a troublesome life".
   This will become very prominent after having children, because children need to be cared for and troublesome. If you do not develop the "real life" habits and consciousness, you will feel why my life has changed dramatically?! MOM can still rely on maternal hormones to support, dad naturally go away.
   
2. about anxiety China now about foetuses a lot of people say can not afford to live, can't afford, the pressure is too big, you will have this kind of pressure, will cause anxiety?
   The idea for Americans is that since you decide to have a baby and raise a child, it means you're ready. For the impending difficulties, only soldiers will block, Prito, step by step slowly forward. Typical American-style "Shoko".
   
   Chinese people like thoughtful, the child has not conceived, began to consider "if the child is particularly difficult to do ah, the child should go to what kindergarten ah, do not have the school district room how to do ah." "Plan Ahead" is not a bad thing, even should be done, but once over the head, once it becomes a psychological shadow, can not motivate you or even hinder your progress, it should be abandoned.
   
   So is there a big difference between Chinese and American parenting? I think the essence of parents is the world, the difference is mainly in the way, in the environment. Is it more of a parenting philosophy in China or is it America? What kind of parenting idea do you think is better?