When father has debt of gratitude to his children

in #education7 years ago (edited)

We always owe a lot of love to the children. Do not we often scold them when we are tired.



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We snap at them when they have not really understood their mistakes. We make them weep because we want to be more understood and heard. But as bad as any we treat them, no matter what we are to them, no matter how angry we once snapped at them. They will still come to us with their little smile, comforting us with their small laughs, holding our hands with their little hands, as if everything is fine, well, as if nothing had ever happened. They always had a lot of love for us, though often we did not reply to their love enough.

We always owe a lot of happiness to our children. We say we work hard for their happiness, but in fact they are the ones who are happy for us in the rest of our time and energy. We feel that we can comfort their sorrow or wipe the tears from their little cheeks, but in fact we are the ones they are always happy, they are the ones who always succeed in throwing our sorrows, widening our fatigue, wiping our tears.

We always owe a lot of time about our children. In 24 hours, how much time do we have to talk, listen, hug, embrace, and play with them? From the time we live with them, how hard do we work to bring real happiness in their days, painting a true smile on their tiny faces?

Of children, they are always more mature and wiser than we are. They are the ones who always teach and guide us to become better human beings every day. As bad as any of us as parents, they are always ready anytime to be the best kids we've ever had.

We are always in debt to our children. Children who every day become victims of how badly we manage emotions. Children are burning residue of our impotence while trying to become human beings. Children who bear the consequences of bad luck that every day we make our own. Children whose future may be sacrificed because we can not design our own future.

But they keep smiling, they still give us a lot of love, they always try to make us happy.

So settle your children, look them over with affection and regret, say to them, "Forgive for the unpaid debts. Forgive if all these debts have made God unapproachable, excuse me for only your forgiveness and your happiness can make my father and mother's life better than ever. Better than ever. "

My child….
Know, That once and until this moment, your presence in this world is something beautiful in my father's eyes. Your present in this world is a form of hope and our love. Father feels very happy because of you. Every time Father comes home from work in a tired body, then Dad sees you, then disappears all the weariness that envelopes this body.

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Parents should remember that children are human beings not robots or goods. And the biggest investment a parent at his son is love and compassion. And love is not supposed to be counted with who owed whom and how hitung-hitungannya. Because love is abstract and not exact can calculated. Any parents had many flaws, errors and imperfections in raising his children, but a genuine love they will take her children always go back to them. Because giving love will get love back.

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hi ashfia.. your post is very nice, i very interested to read it.. but In my opinion, the child does not owe it to his parents, but the child must admit that the parent is always there for him in his childhood. What else can a child give apart from the devotion and willingness to do good to them?

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