How to teach to work in personal complacency?
Personal complacency is the ability to be comfortable and enjoy. In other words, with the person's own way of being, it has nothing to do with not wanting to change or not exploring areas for improvement.
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It is the faculty we have with our strengths and weaknesses, to know how to enjoy the way we are and the way we behave.
Does being complacent have to do with being conformist?
It has nothing to do with one another, because a satisfied person is someone who accepts and conformist is that person who simply lets things happen or, as his word says, is satisfied with what he has.
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The person complacent in itself, enjoys what he has and accepts, because there is a part of life that is not controlled and must be accepted.
So, accepting is not the same as being conformist, complacent is not a person who has a hostile world, simply accept the things that do not depend on him, to enjoy what depends.
Can you turn complacency into submissive people?
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It is necessary to distinguish what is meant by "accept". The useful world of the useless must be divided.
Useless world is composed of:
- Concerns.
- Fear.
- Situations.
- Envies that do not depend on the person.
In the useful world, if you can intervene, even with the worrying things such as:
- When it is worrying to deliver a report within a certain period.
- When you care about the exam note.
It is about accepting the things that do not depend on themselves, the useless world, learning to live with it and investing the energy that you have as effort and values in the useful world.
If you are self-complacent, can you be frowned upon by others?
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It is true that with the current situations in the world, the feeling is:
- We are going to improve ourselves.
- We are going to cross the limits.
- Work with the effort
- Work with values.
- It must fight.
- You must be healthy ambitious.
Those who go at another speed, those who have another interest, a motivation to change something different must respect it and learn to live with those who have another rhythm in life.
How are people who are self-complacent with themselves detected?
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- They are people who transmit peace and security, they are comfortable as they are, they are people who are seen in balance.
- Normally when you have negative emotions like anger, you are in a hurry, you have an imbalance of wanting to go everywhere like running, wanting more to be better, doing more to be happier, and in the end you do not get it.
- Unlike the people who are enjoying the way, and you can see them enjoying the simplest moments. They transmit inner peace for the moment they are living.
Can you be self-complacent and overcome?
- You can be self-complacent and be critical of yourself.
- It can be self-indulgent and want a change.
- It is about working in the areas of improvements, if you decide, but it is also about what you have at the moment to be a source of satisfaction.
- To be happier and find self-complacency, you have to realize to which march you are going.
Steps to work on personal complacency
- Low the accelerated pace that leads in life.
- Do not pay attention to things that do not depend on yourself.
- You must abandon the objectives that damage happiness.
- Accept that you can not please everyone.
- Accept others as they are.
- Accepting other points of view, and that does not mean that you should do what others say. Understand that we all have scales of different values and experiences that make us think and contemplate the world in a different way.
- Accept the unfair part of life.
The attitude of victimization means that the energy is in the useless world, where nothing can be done, instead of enjoying what you have in the now and in what you can still intervene.
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