Why do people become toxic and how can this type of behavior be avoided?

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Toxic people are those who do not allow others to live in a quiet way, just seek to cause chaos. To address the problem of toxic people and know why they become so, it is necessary to ask several basic and compelling questions, for example: can all people be toxic? are there people who are not toxic? Are there people who can become toxic at some point?.

How does the toxic person feel about the suffering of others?

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A toxic person may include points of great pain penetration for herself due to the damaging effect of their attitudes and for others due to the way they act to hurt.

These people feel and see the suffering of their neighbor in the following way:

• They ignore any kind of feeling from others, there is no feeling of guilt or worry.
• They provoke in others a feeling of sadness, cause discontent, low self-esteem, pain. Among others, they do not care about such eventualities.
• They justify their behavior with any excuse, without seeing the pain of others.
• They enjoy the suffering of others, for them everything they do is good, they live in a harmful reality.

All these points come in different levels of intensity, but no one can ignore this type of behavior that is so toxic that it affects mental health.

The toxic motivations that lead people to behave in this way

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The reasons why toxic people act in this way are the following:

• They act in that way out of fear.
• Because they feel that others are a threat.
• Out of envy.
• The expectations of toxic people are unbalanced, unreal.
• Toxic people fear losing their status.
• Be someone ambitious always focused on selfishness.
• Resentment leads to toxic actions.
• Toxic people are manipulative.
• The cruelty that leads to a negative malaise and, therefore, to be someone toxic. Unmanaged frustration that affects.
• People can have fun being toxic to others. They find enjoyment in this action. The experimentation of fun in being toxic causes pain in those around him.
• The toxic motivation of pain. Those who suffer pain crises can become toxic, because it is something intermittent, of the moment.

People often deposit expectations or behaviors that are not appropriate, but the fault lies not with others, but with the person as such.

Toxic people and their ability to be selective

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Toxic people can be selective with who they want to be and have toxic behavior.

It is something of his own personality, which is quite rare but very true.

People are and have that toxic behavior inherent in themselves.

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