There is a big difference between love and Love. I Love everyone, even those that I do not love. As for your question, I am sure that not being in an abusive relationship is better than being in one. We should never allow someone to abuse us or abuse others, that has never and will never have anything to do with love but with an abused psyche that thinks that is depended on its abuser and mistakens that for love. Stay safe and stay loved 💚