Oh, it's sooo nice to read all these answers to this question! Well done on this one too! You make me laugh. I loved: I have learned I don't want to be others’ liver. It's a great way to put it. I know exactly what you mean I have called it: I don't want to be peoples buffer zone anymore. You know where you let yourself be used to fill all the gaps for people. Gaps of self love, gaps of power, even gaps of life force. Or indeed a storage for all unresolved emotions that people don't have space for. Man, that is so tiresome and what a relief when people do own their own emotions, it's like you can finally catch your breath for a bit. But I want it to be always like that now. I always want to be able to catch my own breath from doing my OWN inner work, not others.