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RE: Unconscious Mind Trickery
I also have a special thing for narcissists. I should just assume that if I'm attracted to someone, they're a narcissist. I've also had many different kinds. They're sneaky like that.
I agree that being totally confident and comfortable in my Independence makes a huge difference in what I attract. The neediness never attracts anything good.
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So true! I think I just had to go through my relationships so I could learn that I really only needed what I already had: myself (and the kids). I've become stronger and I don't regret a thing. And to be honest, I think I've always been too independent and stubborn to 'share' the kids with anyone or make decisions with someone not on the same level as I am. I know deep in my heart that even though I'm not perfect, I know what's best for my kids, and having to struggle and argue to get to where I think they should be, is just too much hassle. In all relationships (with the donors, LOL) I had to either argue about things like unassisted birth, no vax etc. or they really didn't give a damn. Either way was wrong. If the other is not on the same line of thoughts, it will never work. In that case, I'd rather be alone and have good friends.
Me too. I can't even remember what I was seeking because I'm so content now.
I'm also really bad at sharing parenting. I know what I'm doing, and I don't need some fool coming along and messing with my program 😂. Like you said, too much hassle. Took a week to even name the 4th baby. Why can't people just trust I'm right?! 😂😂
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