Darling thankyou. I thought for a good two days about whether or not to reply but then I thought should just so you get another angle. Your response to me here shows the beautiful person you must be. Don't worry you didn't cause upset but I just think that there's more than one.way to see a complex situation. And sometimes there isn't a concrete reason for things... they just spontaneously happen. I know my parents don't want to spend their lives worried about every little thing they do from this point thinking of cancer. They honestly live healthy lives and I can't remember a cleaning chemical in my house ever growing up.. I'm 46 now! Keep up your research for sure...the world needs people like you. I just aimed to show you a flipside. Xxx I'm quite fascinated by epigenetics and they saw that parental or grandparent lives can have a huge impact on gene expressions too.. there's a lot we don't know, isn't there? Thanks for your kind words and entering into this dialogue with me with such care and openness. xxx

Also... Dad is 70 so perhaps it's just mortality as it is. As he says "it is what it is" .. bless him. But I cant wait to be surfing and doing yogi with him again.. so your blessings will count x