Thank you sir for asking this question, first of all i truly agree with you when you say

if we don't own our emotions, the end up taking charge of our actions, responses, and lives. Our projected emotions will ruin our relationships, and we will go around blaming others and calling them things like unreasonable, or crazy as a result.

sometimes people are emotionally driven because they are not fully in control of themselves. People are generally not fully in control of themselves because no one has taught them how.

When an individual is not in control of themselves, they become the perfect victim to have control exercised over them. How peoples minds, beliefs and lives are shaped by their culture is a perfect example of this.