Let's just say that the only reason I've made it through the first 2 years of my marriage is not because I made my wife a promise - it's because I made my God a promise. To me, Love is more of a choice than it is a feeling or the result of a temporary hormonal high. The love from God and my love of God will always carry the day, because human intentions, ability, and promises will always come to an end - but Divine power is eternal.