I just wish God will for some minutes make you a man so you will hear his you sound when by u said getting your girlfriend a phone or giving her money is a choice not an investment. You are twisting the meaning of investment. In the business world, how do you invest if not with money? Which ever way you like to put it, what the guy mean is that no matter how youbtry to please a girl, or help her discover her dreams and all that you are saying, she will still leave you without looking back either because she saw another guy or because you are wasting time to propose or because you've gone bankrupt. Which one is Nigerian men? Nigerian women will be the first to leave a man when he is no longer giving them money for all that stuff you say is not investment. Even you now, you have a boyfriend he is good but deep down inside you, you know you will never agree to marry him