The art of communication (part3/3)
Hello, my dear friends!
Welcome to the third part of my mini-series about communication.
In this video, I will talk about the art of LISTENING.
Many people know how to express themself, but not so many knows, how to listen. And listening is very important.
Why?
Well, how do we learn?
By asking questions and listening to the answers.
How do you get to know someone we like?
By showing interest in them and listening to what they have to say.
Listening is gathering information, and it can be very interesting.
Listening is part of every conversation. Without the listener, there is no communication.
How do we listen?
Yes, of course, we listen to the words with our ears.
But, how do we know that someone is telling us the truth?
Because words can lie, you know.
How do you know that someone is honest and sincere?
Probably you answered, you just know. You feel it. And it is true, you can feel if someone is honest or not. You feel the energy behind words.
Words can lie, the energy behind words, can not.
Do you have an experience, when you try to communicate with someone you don't understand their language? It happened a lot to us while traveling in Italy.
Well, we tried to feel what they wanted to say to us. You can feel when they want to sell you something. And you can feel their frustration when you don't buy anything.
You can also feel their kindness, without saying any words.
You can feel good or bad vibes.
Most of our communication happens on a vibrational level.
It is very helpful if you know how to read these vibes. How to listen to them. How to feel the energy behind words.
And how do we learn that skill?
By listening to ourselves and our inner feelings. Everyone has the skill to feel the energy. To feel vibrations. You just have to pay attention to it.
Whenever you listen, you actually receive some sort of energy. And you can tell what energy you have received by the way it feels to you.
When someone is angry with you, you can feel it. When someone is attracted to you, you can feel that too.
More you are aware of how the conversation feels to you, the better you become in listening to the energy behind words.
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