Why We Should Not Have To Go Through Every "Human Experience"; The Reason Why We Need A Premonition

Sometimes in life we go through the process and stress of wanting to know people we shouldn't even try to know, we humans are often taken away by first impression, first experience, first smile and we often try to be acquainted with people who takes away through first impressions but the truth is need we need more than first impression we need an inkling, we need a premonition, we have to understand that people wears masks so as to appeal to whoever sees them, so instead of being impressed with what we see in the first instance.
We need to see through them not by having their numbers or booking a date or giving them our business cards but Instantaneously seeing through their charade, being observant on what people wouldn't really look at and instead of having to be broken after we've experienced them we need to look through them, shift the too good to be true aspect of them because like it or not nothing nis ever too good to be through and a through observation will make us understand that we should just pass people by rather than giving them the pleasure of bringing down our guard so as to hurt us. We however understand who our true friends are and the process of identification can be stressful but absolutely necessary.