The Difficulties Of Adjusting To A Status Change In Life; What Make It More Challenging?
Sometimes when a person who use to be well to do slips and well doesn't do so well anymore there's often a notion that it was his carelessness that's made him lose everything in life and this makes it often difficult for a person whose status changed From being wealthy to not do wealthy to adjust to his new status and work hard towards getting to where they use to be in the past.
In essence sometimes the human society makes it seems as if failure isn't part of life and therefore find it pleasurable to often troll or make mockery of someone who use to have it all in life, this often pushes these people who are trying to get back to what they use to be to become hasty, impatient and well they lose focus and can't or hardly eventually gets back to where they use to be.
In this video I speak about why as a human society must help each other adjust to a new life and status when they're having it rough in life so that they can attain the height they use to be or learn lessons that might help them.
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I agree with what you're saying here Jose. There is far too much petty minded thinking behind most people's outlook on life.
Those people are rarely happy though... there is a perception that wealth = happiness, which is completely wrong. Many of those with wealth are deeply unhappy.
It took me a long time to recognise that status is a social construct and disregard it as such. It's quite liberating once you realise how unimportant all that jazz is on a cosmic scale.
For me it's about getting back to basics.
Have I brought love and positive things to the people around me? Have I contributed positively to the world with my talents? Have I reduced my negative impact on people and the environment to the best of my ability?
If I can tick all these boxes with a yes, I see my life as a success and everyone else's judgements about status, success and failure etc, can go do a running jump 🤣
Happy Christmas m8y 🎅
Exactly, the human society hardly wants to pay attention to details and this is definitely crazy, the importance attached to a whole lot of ephemeral stuff like status is absolutely astonishing and whenever I survey I hope to well, change the world with speaking and living the example of what I'm actually implying. In earnest there's nothing in life that's worth more than happiness and rest of mind and that's why we must elevate one another Irrespective of their status change.
Merry Christmas to you too and your family 🙂
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