How to Get on the Same Page - The G&E Show
What do you think marriage is? Is it having a lot of sex? Monogamy? You might think you can be better by yourself. Two people in a marriage can actually lift each other up—expand to greater heights. When you have your 100% and someone adds their 100%—you increase your magnitude.
Most people don’t know what they want. They think they need to get on the same page with their partner but they aren’t even on their own PAGE! Get on your PAGE first. You can’t keep a marriage and not expect to do anything to keep it. By the way, your page changes over time….so keep reevaluating what your page is:
● Today
● Tomorrow
● Every day
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Definitely getting on your own “page” is important, but it’s really crucial to have a strong emotional connection with your partner. We all have attachment fears, fears our partner will leave us...etc. Hence while we are working on ourselves, we need to be there for our partners and reassure them we are present, we will listen and we will be there for them.
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Do we ever truely figure ourselves out? I think like you said that we are always changing and if we wait to figure out ourselves and continually change on that path we could very likely miss out on the one thing or person that has the potential to help us solve that burning question. Agreed, you must be happy with yourself before you can even take on the role of making someone else happy, and by no means should your happiness ever be tied to someone else. If we are truely to be lucky we find someone who shares that understanding and who you can grow through changes with and find mutual happiness.
well, I am very clear with what I want and if I believe in the loving bonds
Yo pienso que para pensar en matrimonio primero se debe conocer lo suficiente a esa persona con la cual has decidido dar este gran paso .Para mi el matrimonio debe estar basado en respeto, amor y confianza; se debe formar un matrimonio con la persona que realmente ames, que te haga supremamente feliz, con la que te sientas en paz y amornia, y por sobre todas las cosas con la persona que te haga evolucionar, que te ayude a convertirte en una mejor versión de mismo.
Marriage is meant to be a close room for two mature people, but obviously people do not understand that, rushed in and ends up rushing out, to my nest of knowledge, i think its something we should be slow and steady about, of course Adam was mature enough before God saw that he was lonely. Above all marriage is a beautiful thing and i a lady wishes to experience it someday but with a man that is willing to give me his 100% and me my 100%, with that we can change the world.
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True! Figure out yourself first before going to be with another person and that'll just help the relationship go smoother, two people can't be with each other if they barely even know themselves for real, whom they are, what they want and all that. Great post!
Well, i recently saw some of my friends rushing into marriage. ...i was kind of jealous , but when i started hearing the continuous nagging and complains
...i knew it was a serious issue...
Our page changes over time , I'll agree with you on that. But i still feel we could also influence whats on the other persons page too...my thought tho
Good advice for those rushing into marriage
Sir, marriage is when you both go up the ventilation shaft.