Steemit makes you free and you have time to devote it to your health and your daughter.
The answer can be very versatile, but I think there is something between 6 and 7 option. If you convince your wife, then both of you will have a lot of free time and will be able to develop here on Steemit. Yes it may not be the biggest money, but it's a good option.
But I would have chosen option 6 in this situation. Because my wife does not support such earnings, she prefers to have a good job, the main criterion of which is the possibility of growth and observance of emotional balance. (there are posts at work that can make you morally vulnerable).
Whatever option you choose, it will be true for you.