Yes @mrsfox I fully agree with you. I'm happy to have experienced the depths and heights of infatuated obsession and "entanglement" but it is not something I would willingly do again. I suppose I like to commemorate the powerful aspects of my past experiences, as well as portray them as "shadowy echoes" of that mysterious unity of things which cranks the cogs of the Cosmos. Isn't it a great relief to understand that which Love is not? It causes us to be wiser, more discerning, and more compassionate moving forwards.