Diana (Jan 4, 2014 15:00:55 GMT -5)
I play for lots of weddings as a professional musician - people wear black to weddings now. They have for the past several years. Some of the bridemaid dresses are often a combination of black and white, and some are pure black. The old rules don't apply much anymore. Also, if you want to be not noticed so much in a crowd, plain black is what is worn.