How can domestic violence be handled?

sayee (66)in #domestic • 6 years ago (edited)

Domestic violence is an issue which must not be treated lightly at all. There are increasing cases of domestic violence and although the authorities are trying their best, many cases go unreported mainly due to the fear of being punished by the abuser after reporting him/her to the authorities.

Take India for example, women are brainwashed right from the beginning not to oppose men-folk and not to talk back or even complain. This is also the case with other such countries nearby. This attitude has made it difficult for the ladies to even think independently leave alone fend for themselves. There are rare cases where the parents give freedom and the girls are able to make a success of their lives but it few and concentrated in a few states where it is okay to educate the girl child.

How to handle domestic violence

It is not easy. Many a time, the abused person is not aware that he or she is being abused. By the time, the person realizes it, it would have been too late and even if rescued, they would be left with scars that would mar their life. Sadly, it is children who suffer the most. These children grow up into individuals who are not capable of living a proper happy life and could also hurt others. Did you know that Adolf Hitler had an abused childhood?

if you are aware that a person is being abused, please report it to the authorities and make sure that the abused person is rescued.
if the abused person is capable of handling the situation, counsel him/her and coax them to oppose and be prepared to face their fears
advice the abuser and tell him/her of the dire consequences if they continue with harming other individuals or animals
if you are the person who is being abused, remember that there are various agencies which are out there to help you both online and otherwise. You only need to take the first step

The key factor is to stay calm and be brave enough to oppose the person who is abusing you and then only can you actually redeem yourself. Remember you are special and deserve a normal life like others.

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