I think I've heard children through the closed door so chances are they are still alive

Current TODO list:

• change my address everywhere
• inform utility companies about me no longer living at the property
• consolidate my pension plans

My wife should be eligible for my pension plans as they were created before post-nupial agreement:

A post-nup can be a good thing to consider if you have previously separated but are now in a relationship again, and you want to avoid uncertainty if things go wrong again.