The distance between hearts
The furthest distance in the world should be the distance between heart and heart.
The communication between people is not the communication of body language, but the communication between the heart and the soul.
One day, a wise professor asked his students: Why do people yell when they are angry? All the students thought for a long time.
One of them said: Because we have lost our "coolness", we will yell.
The professor asked again: "But why do you still yell when someone is by your side? Can't you say it in a low voice? Why do you always yell?"
Almost all the students said a lot, but none of the answers satisfies the professor.
Finally, the professor explained:
When two people are angry, the distance between the two is very far, in order to cross the distance between the two so that the other person can hear, they must yell.
But when people shout, they become more angry, the farther they are, the more angry they are, and the farther they shout.
The professor went on to say: When two people are in love, what will it be like?
The situation is just the opposite. Not only do you not need to shout loudly, but you speak very softly. why? Because their hearts are very close, there is almost no distance between them, and they usually whisper.
But, because of this, the love deep in my heart has deepened. Later, there is no need to speak at all. Therefore, two people who love each other can communicate with their eyes. At that time, there was no so-called distance between heart and heart.
Finally, the professor came to a conclusion: When two people quarrel, don't let the distance between the heart and the heart become farther, let alone make the distance between the heart and the heart become farther.
After waiting for a while, the distance is a bit close, let's talk about it! When two people are angry, their hearts are far apart. When they are angry, please keep silent, and don't make any decisions when they are angry.
At the same time, don't accuse others easily, because we don't have enough wisdom to understand the joys, sorrows, sorrows and joys in others' lives, and cannot truly understand the ups and downs of others.
Everyone has a different location and environment, and it is difficult to understand how another person feels. Therefore, do not blindly accuse and criticize, otherwise it will cause harm to others.
The communication between people is not the communication between the body and the body, but the communication between the soul and the soul. Sometimes, when you are close at hand and your mind is far away, you must increase your volume to ensure that the far mind can receive the message.
No matter who you communicate with, you can bring your hearts closer and communicate with your heart. The soul is close at hand, everything is easy to discuss.