Handle It Better, Contributed By @olawalium.

in decision •  2 months ago

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Still on the issue of relationship; don’t mind me, I love talking about relationship because I am a firm believer that if we get our relationship right, there is no limit to the things we can achieve and the success we can record, coupled with the happiness we can spread around in the world.

Relationship, like I always stress it, is for serious minded people and the situation I am about to share with you is a perfect example of why you need a serious minded partner, and not someone who acts like a baby. Maturity is vital in a relationship as we just concluded in the last series.


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There is a guy, and for the sake of this post, let’s call him John. John has this best friend called Natalie. They are quite close. They used to be love birds, but they are now close friends, in fact too close. We can also call Natalie an ex to John. Fair to them, their past didn’t stop them from being friends with each other and why they broke up in the first place remains to be seen. It could be family issue, it could be blood group, it could be anything, but that is not the focus for this post.

John found a girlfriend; Gloria and Gloria happened to work in the same office with Natalie; John’s best friend and ex, quite tricky huh? Exactly! The issue is, Gloria doesn’t seem to get along with Natalia and John is now in a fix as to what to do. It is a state of dilemma I admit but this guy has the power to handle things better but he didn’t.


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Anytime they have an argument; Gloria and Natalie, Natalie always tell Gloria that she met her boyfriend before her, so she should show her a little bit of respect and when John will get to hear the issue, regardless of who is at fault, even if it was Natalie, he would COMMAND his girlfriend to go and apologize to Natalie.

…to be continued…


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John's judgement may be fair to some, and may not be fair to some, depends on how you take it cos we can't think of the same thing the same way

But if I were john I won't interfere ; I will only appogise to each everyone of them and try to make peace. Its kinda ridiculous telling my girlfriend to apologise to my best friend, she may think otherwise

You are getting along Relationship topic so beautifully @olawalium seems it become your forte 👌 though i know all your speciality....only a mature person can handle a typical situation in a relationship and bring peace...the starting of the Natalie-John-Gloria seems very exciting......let get along with the story 👍

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Hahahahahaha thank you so much my friend. Yes, they have an exciting story and it is a little bit unfair on Gloria as she couldn't feel the attention and commitment from her spouse. I recently heard about the story and i felt it would be nice to share it and make people learn from it, just as i learned from it too.

Thanks my friend.

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Great to bring some real life experiencea into steem. It will help people to learn and make use of it...to make a happy and beautiful life

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Absolutely. Thank you very much and i am glad you like it too.

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Worth of reading your post...👍

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Hmmmm!!! I cant wait to follow this to the, end. Close friend (now ex), Co worker (his present and Ex)? This can be best imagined. But very quickly may I state; Relationship isny supposed to make anyone loose sleep. Its (relationship "Marriage" ) is supposed to be enjoyed and not endured.
Thanks @olawalium for sharing.

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Yes, John has a terrible way of making his spouse sad rather than to enjoy it. He is trying to eat his cake and then have it. Never done.

A serious minded partner is like a life in heaven.
There will be no worries if you got the right one partner. It will lower the difficulties in upcoming life.