What really works when dating in Russia?

When talk about russian girls, first thing that came to mind is their beauty and how icy cold they are. It's all true! They are stone cold bitches and always playing that hard to get card. But if you zoom out from that thought, actually a lot of really smart and beautiful girl play that card too, not just Russians. Boys, ever wonder why?? I was as puzzled as all of those guys who can't seem to get the girl of their dream. Well you know, those guys who always just at the corner of a bar, playing with phones, periodically staring at the girl they like but not able to make a move. I'm tired of being that guy, I feel the need to break free of my comfort zone.

So for the next few weeks, I spent hours searching on internet for advices. And also watched some youtube coaching videos ( yeah i know it's unconventional :D) . And months of practice in real life. I approached more girls on street, more active participation in social events, read more about this topic. After 4 years of trying this is what I found out what really works :

1. Russian girls are always searching for a strong guy, they are stone cold for a reason. It's their filter mechanism, it happened very fast but really effective. The test is simple. They give you a cold shoulder when you try to talk to them. A strong and persistent guy will not back off from such gesture. It signifies you really find her interesting and not just some other pretty girl. They just want to feel special just like any other girls :) In Russia, it is believed that, their other half is the best in their world. Because, that's how much they value themselves! And they really put in effort to be a good housewife. Most of the girl I met, those matured one of course, have their own business running, some with two degrees, and some started to work as early as 11 years old. Oh my.. I was still sucking my thumb in school :D So, be true and persistent of who you are, look beyond their beauty, and delve into their soul as a person :)

1. Be in control and lead. Girls don't like to make decision. They are emotional creature. They need to feel that manliness to give that emotional rush. That's how they evaluate you when it comes to sex. You must remember she is the receiving end :) and you are the one giving the thrust. If you're unable to make decision and flaky, sex going to be worse and so does the relationship. Do you know girls thinks much more frequently than a man. Mind of a girl is way more complicated than a man. That's why they need a person to untangle their thoughts. Help them to make choice. God created woman to be driven by emotions. And guys are driven by rationality. It suppose to be complementary and helpful to each other.

1. Be direct and honest. Russian girls are honest and they will tell you directly if they didn't like or when they like something. Or even be interrogating you when you guys start to be acquainted. They will ask some serious question like What's your life goal? What makes you come to Russia? And their favourite ones do you want to stay in Russia? It's not like in other european countries where people just want to have small talks, a polite talk. It takes some times to really know the person. In Russia, if that person interested in you she will show. Of course, there's people who will be fake and only have an eye for your money since you're a foreigners. So make sure, you two really have something in common. Gold digger will have less interest of who you really are. Or even mixed up your culture with something else. If you're not sincere enough, there will be something fishy to spot on. Just be alert of those small signs.

1. Do not pay for her on first date. I pretty paranoid if these girls are interested in my money or my personality. That's why I won't pay on first date. If they eventually picked up a reason to leave or not showing up for second date, then you'll know immediately she is after your money. Not really interested in who you really are. I know there's a culture of always paying for the girl you invited. But I personally don't believe that bullshit. Those who really like me, they did stay with me anyway. And it saves my time from spending with the wrong girl. It's called being efficient

So last but not least, be wise and persistent! Eventually you'll meet the russian girl of your dream!!