Female Dating Tactics: Hypergamy

Hypergamy is the female tendency to date men of higher quality than themselves. This is why girls are always dropping trou' for older, established men and women who have absolutely nothing going for them expect to date men who already have their shit together.

Don't fault women for dating up. Campus girls seek the love of older, wealthier men rather than their classmates who can barely afford to buy them mandazis because this kind of behavior is hard-coded into their DNA. Fighting against their ways will only leave you frustrated. Understand their behavior and turn it to your advantage.

Start by dating women who are lower in the social hierarchy than you are. If you're a Nairobian who lives in Runda then you have no chance with a hot London girl even though she lives in council flats. You've got a better chance with that thot from Thogoto so adjust your game accordingly. K is constant regardless of which suburb she hails from. Save yourself the hassle and go for the easy kill.

My friends and I who went to uni abroad experienced hypergamy first hand, we just didn't know what it was. Pulling a girl back home during nights out in Leeds, Bradford or even Manchester was always a luck of the draw but during holidays spent in Nairobi all that we had to do was 'let slip' that we studied abroad and she'd be the one pulling us into the bathroom stall for a bareback quickie. We used to think that Nairobi girls were more fun but no, it was just hypergamy in play.

Hot girls never, never date down. If he's good looking and maintains an alpha-frame then he's good for a quick lay. If he's got cash then she'll try to trap him or convince him that she loves more than just his wallet. If he already has a girl then she's prepared to share. If he has neither of these desirable traits then the best he can hope for is the friendzone.

Quasimodo never got to bang Esmeralda- he got friendzoned. Snape never got into Lilly's panties- he got worse than friendzoned, he got pitied. Jorah Mormont never got to find out what the Mother of Dragons tastes like- he got friendzoned then banished for attempting to escape that friendzone. The one thing that all of these over-reachers have in common is that they strove for women beyond their stations and got punished for it.

A man has every right to dream but if the woman that he wants is too good for him then his best bet is to raise his own value until it exceeds hers, or wait for her to turn 30 and start considering the losers who were not worthy of her time before.

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