What Goes Around Comes Around : When a man asks for a date .

I was asked by a young and handsome man if I would like to go on a date with him . 

Im sharing my response to show other women that you don't have to make the man feel like a loser or ugly when you say no to a date . Tell the truth and be sincere but you don't have to be hurtful about it . You don't have to make him feel he's doing something wrong . 

Make a man feel insecure , he'll stop approaching the rest of us . Make a man feel like a loser , he'll stop believing in himself . Make a man feel incompetent , he'll carry the resentment towards women and we'll have a bunch of hurt men that hurt women. 

My point is . Your response to men is powerful and comes back not only to you but to the rest of us women . 

Be the difference you want to see in the world . Most importantly , learn self love so that you can love others 

My response ;

Hi , thank you for following me .

My passion in life is uplifting and empowering myself so I can bring as many people with me and hopefully they'll do it too and this world will be a better place cause we all have self love . I'm flattered about your interest in me but I can't date you . I can't date anyone . It's not my time to . I must truly love and know myself before i date . Until then , whoever I meet , wouldn't work out in the long run . I hope I inspire you to live well and please let others know about self love ❤️