10 core Reasons Why Men Pull Away
Things are going well. You are getting close to a guy and he seems to be reciprocating.What changes in his mind to suddenly make him distance himself from you and the relationship?
- He is scared of his own feelings…..
Perhaps the biggest reason why men pull away early in a relationship is because they are scared of how they feel.
Whether or not they were actively searching for love when you met them, the feeling of suddenly falling for someone is full of uncertainty.
Do you know how your guy come back?
- He is scared of commitment.
Some men find the idea of staying loyal to a single person quite foreign.
Perhaps they are still young and want to ‘play the field’ before settling down.
Maybe they enjoy the early throes of a romantic entanglement and ‘the chase’ of a love interest, but not what comes after.
- He’s scared of getting hurt.
Past relationships can leave emotional scars and baggage which cause a man to distance himself before he commits his heart and risks further hurt.
If he previously had a partner who broke up with him when he was in love with them, it can make him afraid of experiencing similar heartache again.
This is certainly not just confined to men. Many women can feel this way too.
Let’s face it, when they are falling in love, a person can do all sorts of strange things. Sometimes this manifests as self-sabotage.
- It’s all got a bit too intense for him.
Some relationships go from zero to sixty very quickly.
As much as he might like that in his cars, he might not be so keen on it when it comes to dating.
The feelings between you and the way you spend so much time together might be a little bit too much too soon.
The relationship might be moving too fast for him.
- He needs to recharge his masculinity.
Relationships change people to a certain extent. In a man’s case, it tends to make them more vulnerable and more emotionally expressive (though not always).
This can feel very unfamiliar to many men and their natural reaction might be to fight against it.
They might feel the need to pull away in order to recharge their ‘man battery’ doing the kinds of things men enjoy.
- He’s got other stresses in his life.
When a guy pulls away, sometimes it has nothing to do with you or the relationship.
He pulls away because he has a lot of stress in other areas of his life.
Perhaps his boss is asking a lot of him and, being the ambitious person he is, he doesn’t want to let them down.
Or maybe he is having some issues with his family and this is taking an emotional toll.
- He feels he doesn’t deserve love and happiness.
Some people have such low self-esteem and self-worth that they simply can’t understand why anyone would love them.
Perhaps your guy is one such person.
He might be pulling away because he’s sure that you don’t love him and that he doesn’t deserve the happiness he might feel when with you.
- He’s worried about losing his identity.
Before you came along, he was (presumably) single for a least a little while, and possibly a long while.During his single days, he developed an identity around that particular relationship status.
Whether or not he actually enjoyed being single, he identified with it and knew how to live his life as that person. He had routines and hobbies and people that he used to see all the time.
- He’s confusing lust for love… and it’s fading.
If you’ve been with this guy for a little while and he’s only now started to pull away from you, it could be that the intense physical connection he feels with you is beginning to fade.
That’s a part of the normal progression of a relationship, but it can be quite confusing if you’re not aware of what it really means.
He might have mistaken lust for love. And now that the lust is fading slowly, but surely, he’s convinced himself that you’re not right for each other because love hasn’t yet fully developed to take the place of the lust.
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