Dark side of falling in love

You see her.
You get butterflies.
You become friends.
You start talking.
You exchange numbers.
Late night chats, calls.
You love the way she makes you feel.
You feel, “She's the one!”
You fall for her.
You confess.
She accepts.
You get into a relationship.

Days pass by, you become attached,addicted and emotionally fully dependent on her.

It's become hard for you to survive even some seconds without her.

You lose yourself in her…

You call her. She says that she's busy.

She needs space.

You get angry.

You argue. Seems like nobody understands you.

She ignores you.

You become devastated, emotionally broken.

One fine day, she says, “It's not working anymore.”

And she leaves you.

You beg her to come back to your life.

You lose your self respect.

You're not the same person anymore.

You've become dependent on her, your emotions are with her, your feelings are for her.

But she doesn't care!

She sleeps peacefully, while you cry all night.

You start smoking, drinking.

You become a chainsmoker, drunkard.

You lose smiles, happiness.

You get panic attacks.

You get depressed, sad, anxious.

You hurt yourself physically.

You lose faith in love…

The darkest side of falling in love is to fall in love with the wrong person. And to be emotionally attached and fully dependent on that person.

It makes you devastated.

It changes you.

It makes you lose faith in love.

It makes you lose yourself.

Sometimes, It’s better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one.

Love never fails, people fail in love.

SOURCE : QUORA/Pranay Sharma

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