I think this one hits the top of the list for one of those days. I would certainly be a reck if I heard one of my friends was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Odds are not great with that one. My prayers go out to him and his family as well as yours. You must have been exhausted by the end. I remember something similar happening to my hubby and ended up packing up the kids, taking the suitcase and driving to meet him halfway so he wouldn't have to make the entire three-hour trip home and back again. I occasionally have days like this too where it would have been better just to stay at home for the day because once one thing goes wrong, it soon becomes a series of things. Hope today is a much better day!