When I was a kid i must say I never had a very good relationship with my father , once I grew up , moved away and started my independent adult life I started going to my father's house to chat quite a lot , just come over , stay at his sofa , have coffee and talk about many things in life , some serious , some funny , just coffee chat . Then we would get together for breakfast on certain days , just before going to work and I must say I really cherish those moments , there were some very cool father-and-son times that I missed when I was a kid , and very healing ones too :). Now we keep them by phone since I live 4000km away! nice post Bembel , liked the nice read :)