Keys to a good reputation

If you want to flourish and create a quality lifestyle, AND become enticing, it is only natural that you take an interest in your reputation.

Reputation is undoubtedly one of the most important elements to take into account because it is the key to respect. It can be said that everything depends on her.

What do you think is the "health" of your reputation? You certainly have an idea of ​​how people look at you, but according to your observation, how did they behave like that? You yourself can easily distinguish one thing: you can easily point out to me an individual of your entourage in whom you have great respect, and another who leaves you indifferent.

What did these two people do differently in your first meetings? If you have a reputation say bland, how to reverse the trend?

Everything is determined by the first seconds

To begin with it can be the first words, the intonation of the voice, and the quality of the body language . Someone who moves with energy makes us want to appreciate it, if it moves especially with mastery by speaking with intensity and passion, there is a good chance that you will be born in you an admiration and a desire to trust him. This proves a charismatic leader.
Suppose, on the other hand, that the other person is very small, that she has a fleeting glance and a stiff and uncertain posture, you will not want to discover it because you know instinctively that she will not reveal herself spontaneously in public .

But suppose otherwise you have heard of these individuals before you meet them. What information will you receive? Rumors will be reported on their account, but especially on the collective impressions that form their reputation.
So it's important to make sure you have a good reputation for opening more doors: not everybody can talk with you, but many people can get to know you through word-of-mouth.

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This may seem superficial, but look at it from another angle: maintaining one's reputation does not necessarily mean obeying one's own image, or making superficial relationships that aim to acquire the good appreciation of all. However, it is about developing human qualities that will allow you to develop your circle with people who will know that you are a respectable, interesting, inspiring, and entertaining individual. That is the kind of reputation that interests you.

How to act then?

You will have to develop and maintain certain qualities.

There are 3 of them:
EMPATHY
Suppose you exchange with several people, and one of them seems distressed by the way she stands, her way of speaking (jerky and repeating), her gaze (usually directed towards the ground, or eyes fleeing yours ).

Give this person your listening, and see how you can help him. The mere fact of being there and of hearing it can already mean a lot.
In another context, if your group of friends clearly testifies to boredom at an evening but no one dares to speak ...

Take the lead by making them move elsewhere to a place and more friendly people. Not only will you surprise them, but they will see you in someone safe and on whom you can rely for fun!
There are many other situations, but to summarize, to show empathy is just to be observant and to be present when you see that someone would need a friend.

You will see that attempting this experience will transform you: it is not a matter of behaving in such a way as to reap the favors of others. But as you show up, you will be happy to support them just as they will be happy to know you. It is a form of self-giving without expecting anything in return, but you can be certain that eventually the right person or persons will be ready to help you if need be.

Reliability

To develop a good reputation and maintain it, become someone you can rely on. Respect your promises and commitment, and be sure to be someone punctual .

You will also feel your surroundings in safety. Be.
Someone who demonstrates personal commitment,
strength and courage while protecting the people they care for.

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It is worth remembering that we live in a time when we have less and less confidence in others. Have the courage to put you forward for your entourage.

So be a friend who does not hesitate to support and help. Be a protective lover (not the sense of jealousy), a guide and a mentor for all people who want to learn from you.

The background of your reputation does not depend on the number of friends or conquests, but ...

Your integrity

This is what determines the strength of your character, your personality.

It is not easy to keep its principles in everyday life, it is precisely your challenge. You will always be subjected to a dilemma: to act as an automaton in the ease, or to make decisions that are proper to you that will have to be assumed even if they are going in the wrong direction.

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If you have strong human values ​​and the courage to respect them, your life will not be the same : you will not be the prey of events anymore, but will spend each day feeling that you belong to you. You will no longer be afraid of not socializing or of launching adventures that may seem crazy, like resigning, making a great journey , seeking and working with professionals who were not waiting for you ...

This strength of character is revealed by your attitude and also determines your confidence: act according to your heart and your values ​​and you will no longer have irrational fears that prevent you from living fully . And your reputation will be better.

To remember

Forging your reputation is not beneficial to you, it will also be beneficial for the people who frequent you , if not more. They will be brought to respect you for what you are, which is incredible, for even daring to think otherwise than the masses and to act towards your dreams, you will be supported.
Some will of course remain skeptical or even hostile toward you because they find themselves in the uncomfortable position of questioning. Do not blame them and let them digest their frustration. Those who will overcome their feelings and take example on you will be good dating to have.

And that's how we develop a reputation for quality, while remaining faithful to ourselves.

Good luck, and come share your experiences in the comments.