This sounds like the C.S. Lewis philosophy of 'let the waves come, don't try to swim against them'. I personally completely disagree with it - I think a person has a responsibility to themselves to build their life up and create the best possible version of themselves - but at the same time this idea has a lot of value in the sense that people need to learn to accept the things they can't change and use the energy from those things to their advantage instead of mounting a futile resistance to them.
This is simple don't force for what is not yours. Example if your girlfriend said she do not want you again, don't force her to love. But if something is for go for it. Example two, if you have something and someone wanted to take it away from you don't let go of it fight for it.
This sounds like the C.S. Lewis philosophy of 'let the waves come, don't try to swim against them'. I personally completely disagree with it - I think a person has a responsibility to themselves to build their life up and create the best possible version of themselves - but at the same time this idea has a lot of value in the sense that people need to learn to accept the things they can't change and use the energy from those things to their advantage instead of mounting a futile resistance to them.
This is simple don't force for what is not yours. Example if your girlfriend said she do not want you again, don't force her to love. But if something is for go for it. Example two, if you have something and someone wanted to take it away from you don't let go of it fight for it.