I can't relate to your feelings right now, it reminds when I was eighteen my best friend then got pregnant for one of my cousins, but she couldn't tell me and I heard it from someone else's, even when we lived together. Nobody believed me, even my elder siblings when I said I wasn't aware because we were so close. I cried my eyes out, I felt disappointed, betrayed, angry, and confused. The stigmatization is something I don't want to recall, you know the saying "Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are?" Most people believe that I will also end up like her.

Well, I understand that we are humans and are prone to making mistakes, so I forgave my friend and life goes on. She's happily married now and her husband accepted her for who she is.

So cry, be angry but then forgive Carolina, as you rightly said, we all have to choose our life's course, just be there for her and continue to encourage her on the right path, and she will never forget you. I'm sending love 💕 and hugs 🫂!